Time and time again I get calls from people who have used the services of a different mohel, who ask me questions they don't want to ask their mohel, after the fact.
I am happy to help however I can.
But the obvious question becomes, "Why did you not ask these questions before?"
And the follow-up, "Why aren't you comfortable asking these questions to your mohel?"
The excuses are what they are, but they usually boil down to a few points:
"He isn't open enough."
"He says a lot but does not really leave us open to asking questions."
"He seems to not be aware of what we're going through."
These are very unfortunate cases. Would you ever go to a doctor who you felt you couldn't talk to after he operated on you? I hope not!
It is important to trust your mohel, and to be able to have a frank and open conversation about the process. What happens, what happened, and what needs to be done to give the baby the "thumbs-up" and "clear" and "good to go" symbols...
When you call me, this is the service you get. We talk a few days before the bris (when it is possible, I will come and meet you and your son a few days before the bris as well), we talk the day of the bris, before the bris, after the bris (while the baby is being cared for), and later on when I come visit him to remove the bandage and to make sure all is good.
I call a few days later to see how all is going. I am always available by phone, and am happy to come take a look to assure you all is good (post-bris) if I can help reassure you in any way.
[Though if I am a distance away, I have found that sending me a photo through the phone works just as well!]
You are always in the loop, always in the know, you are always aware of what is going on or has gone on with your baby.
Give a call - be in touch - I look forward to meeting you.
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Tuesday, June 15, 2010
The Importance of Trust
Posted by A.B. at 7:39 PM
Labels: conversation, important questions, questions, travel, trust
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