Sunday, October 19, 2014
The Sensitivity Factor
I've been asked by many people, "Why should I hire you? What do you differently than any other mohel?"
But after some of the more recent experiences I've had with some sensitive situations, and the feedback I've received, what people have told me they found most helpful about my services is the calming demeanor and the "knowing the right thing to say" manner I bring to their unique circumstance.
Honestly, I am a results guy. I want the circumcision to look as perfect as I can, and I want the baby to be in a good place in his post-bris healing the last time I see him (which is usually one post-bris visit).
But there is so much more to what is going on than just the baby's circumcision. There is post-partum mother, and, in many cases, a nervous father. If this is their first child (but also if it's the first son after a girl or only girls) there is the added "This is totally new for us" factor,
And people need to know...
that everything will be OK,
that we have thousands upon thousands of Jewish boys born every year,
that the baby will cry during the bris.
that circumcision causes a little bit of bleeding.
AND also that
your baby is in good hands
other than you right now, no one cares for your baby's well being more than I do
And all this will be explained to you in a calm manner, in a sensitive manner, in a way that will put you at ease, and will hopefully leave you feeling (as the couple from this morning's bris told me) that your questions and concerns are also my concerns, and that they were answered, and that you were given the attention you need and deserve in the events surrounding the bris of your son.
Posted by A.B. at 8:39 PM